"A good and a bad girl" (psychological bricks about our personality and the consequences of upbringing)

- Вовченко, О.А. (orcid.org/0000-0002-4399-0118) (2022) "A good and a bad girl" (psychological bricks about our personality and the consequences of upbringing) Інститут спеціальної педагогіки і психології імені Миколи Ярмаченка НАПН України, м. Київ, Україна.

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Abstract

Quite often during teaching activities or even when you hear how parents raise their children, you can hear: "You are a bad girl!", or "Good girls don't do that", or they compare one child with another, something like this: "well done Marichka, her teacher praised her, she behaves well, and you - I am ashamed of you"... And such examples can be cited endlessly with limitless variations, even with the use of physical punishments or threats of their use! Do you think it is right to embarrass children, compare them with those who jump better, bring good marks in the diary, etc.? In this way, parents hope to instill a sense of guilt, duty, responsibility, and improve learning outcomes and behavior. But, alas, as if everything were so simple!!! Such behavior injures parents, I will emphasize quite deeply. These words echo in their adult heads. These are crippled adults, in whom live offended children, unloved, who were not proud of simply for being who they are, who are gifted by the universe to this family, mother or guardians.

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